Hi Jenny:
A common problem that is occuring more and more, unfortunately. I address this very subject in my book,
It's All About HYMN: Essays on Reclaiming Sacred and Traditional Music for Worship (check out the reviews on Amazon.com for what others have said), but here's a short piece from the great 19th century British preacher Charles Haddon Spurgeon on the use of entertainment--a problem even in the 1800s!!
Donn LeVie, Jr.
Feeding Sheep or Amusing Goats?
> Charles Haddon Spurgeon
> (1834-1892)
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> An evil is in the professed camp of the Lord, so gross in its impudence,
> that the most shortsighted can hardly fail to notice it during the past few
> years. It has developed at an abnormal rate, even for evil. It has worked
> like leaven until the whole lump ferments. The devil has seldom done a
> cleverer thing than hinting to the church that part of their mission is to
> provide entertainment for the people, with a view to winning them.
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> From speaking out as the Puritans did, the church has gradually toned down
> her testimony, then winked at and excused the frivolities of the day. Then
> she tolerated them in her borders. Now she has adopted them under the plea
> of reaching the masses.
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> My first contention is that providing amusement for the people is nowhere
> spoken of in the Scriptures as a function of the church. If it is a
> Christian work, why did not Christ speak of it? "Go ye into all the world
> and preach the gospel to every creature" (Mark 16:15). That is clear enough.
> So it would have been if He had added, "and provide amusement for those who
> do not relish the gospel." No such words, however, are to be found. It did
> not seem to occur to him.
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> Then again, "He gave some, apostles; and some, prophets; and some
> evangelists; and some pastors and teachers .., for the work of the ministry"
> (Eph. 4:11-12). Where do entertainers come in? The Holy Spirit is silent
> concerning them. Were the prophets persecuted because they amused the people
> or because they refused? The concert has no martyr roll.
>
> Again, providing amusement is in direct antagonism to the teaching and life
> of Christ and all his apostles. What was the attitude of the church to the
> world? Ye are the salt" (Matt. 5:13), not the sugar candy---something the
> world will spit out not swallow. Short and sharp was the utterance, "Let the
> dead bury their dead" (Matt. 8:22) He was in awful earnestness.
>
> Had Christ introduced more of the bright and pleasant elements into his
> mission, he would have been more popular when they went back, because of the
> searching nature of His teaching. I do not hear him say, "Run after these
> people Peter and tell them we will have a different style of service
> tomorrow, something short and attractive with little preaching. We will have
> a pleasant evening for the people. Tell them they will be sure to enjoy it.
> Be quick Peter, we must get the people somehow." Jesus pitied sinners,
> sighed and wept over them, but never sought to amuse them.
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> In vain will the Epistles be searched to find any trace of this gospel of
> amusement! Their message is, "Come out, keep out, keep clean out!" Anything
> approaching fooling is conspicuous by its absence. They had boundless
> confidence in the gospel and employed no other weapon.
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> After Peter and John were locked up for preaching, the church had a prayer
> meeting but they did not pray, "Lord grant unto thy servants that by a wise
> and discriminating use of innocent recreation we may show these people how
> happy we are." If they ceased not from preaching Christ, they had not time
> for arranging entertainments. Scattered by persecution, they went everywhere
> preaching the gospel. They turned the world upside down (Acts 17:6). That is
> the only difference! Lord, clear the church of all the rot and rubbish the
> devil has imposed on her, and bring us back to apostolic methods.
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> Lastly, the mission of amusement fails to effect the end desired. It works
> havoc among young converts. Let the careless and scoffers, who thank God
> because the church met them halfway, speak and testify. Let the heavy laden
> who found peace through the concert not keep silent! Let the drunkard to
> whom the dramatic entertainment has been God's link in the chain of the
> conversion, stand up! There are none to answer. The mission of amusement
> produces no converts. The need of the hour for today's ministry is believing
> scholarship joined with earnest spirituality, the one springing from the
> other as fruit from the root. The need is biblical doctrine, so understood
> and felt, that it sets men on fire.